What is Trauma?
Trauma is not an event, but an extreme experience within the central nervous system in response to the past coming into the present. Sometimes these experiences are categorized into such as fight, flight, freeze, or faun… depersonalization or derealization… relational insecurities… Whether this feels like a numbing disconnection or a sharp flame dancing through your body, trauma can seize control, steering our thoughts and actions. In an effort to protect us, our nervous system may go into overdrive, prioritizing self-preservation over clear judgment.
What does trauma look like?
At its essence, trauma is anxiety born from past experiences that refuse to stay in the past. These are the memories of times when you felt powerless, caught in survival mode, or entangled in difficult relationships that now feel stained with shame. For many, revisiting these moments with empathy and self-compassion can be challenging, especially when self-blame has become a familiar refrain.
Trauma affects both the body and the mind. Common symptoms of trauma include:
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Trauma triggers and neurodiversity
For those who are neurodivergent, the experience of trauma can be even more complex. Triggers—those catalysts that pull the past into the present—are often tied to our senses. A certain smell, a specific sound, or even a fleeting thought can set off a chain reaction, bringing buried pain rushing back. In the neurodivergent brain, these triggers can sometimes ignite a cascade of memories, with one thought leaping to the next at lightning speed.
Picture this: someone asks you for the time, so you glance at the clock. The clock’s square shape reminds you of the one at your grandmother’s house. Ah, remember her cookies? The cinnamon ones were your favorite. Just the other day, you learned that cinnamon is an ingredient in horchata, which you drank on your first date with your ex—and suddenly, the pain is back, as fresh as ever.
But there is hope. Understanding your triggers is the first step towards managing them and preventing them from overwhelming you. Having a trauma-informed therapist guide you to a conversational space fully of validation and trust before asking questions that ignite self-awareness of your triggers will minimize shame, rumination, and avoidance that often accompany trauma.
It is possible to reclaim control, allowing your past to inform, rather than dominate, your present. Talk to us below to get started.
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